How do you prevent a tagged photo or video from showing up in all of your friends news feeds? Here's how to keep all tagged photos private: Go to your profile privacy page and change the setting for "Photos Tagged of You." Select the "Customize" option and when the dialog box pops up, choose "Only Me" and "None of My Networks." Don't forget about your photo albums. You'll need to fine-tune your settings to make them private on an album-by-album basis.
New since June 25th Facebook has a new privacy setting where you are able to grant access, depending on your selection to:
2) specific groups or
3) one individual